But she can sense it. My husband proposed to me when I was that weight.I get extremely frustrated by these types of posts.
I strive to make my husband happy, praise him and be desirable for him always. It’s like she’s driving a car with a blindfold on. I am sorry but I don’t recall when saying one’s marriage vows for better or until you get what I may consider “fat” until death do us part. Kill himself? My weight ballooned to 173lbs. I mean come on… like that is a jokeIt’s not always the man who complains about the women’s weight. I truly believe my ex has some underlying mental issue due to the substance abuse and his way of always twisting every problem in our marriage to where it was somehow my fault. A bit of diligence together with some self-discipline go a very long way toward personal self-improvement.My instinct right now is to dissolve the marriage and hopefully find someone more tuned-in to weight / health and someone who has plenty of sexual desire to make up for what I haven’t had for over two decades. it’s also pragmatic to say there may be deeper issues at play and leaving a wife of however many years is not a cut and dried situation.in long term committed relationships, it is often that a woman has to reach certain standards of weight and dressing normatively and then a male goes on to think about other things. My wife knows how I feel. My god! More muscle mass, libido off the chart, and erections as though I used a time machine get back to when I was 30.
I don’t wait for that stomach expanding feeling, but instead wait until the feeling of “hunger” has left me, at which point I know I’ve had enough. It was 10 years before he came to understand “sex drive” is a physical thing.
Bold honesty. For me, I will just be depressed inside and resentful . Her sex drive came back and we did good for a while, but she still gained some weight.
For all we know, she could have gained 50 lbs.You only live once mate.
Why is it that as a society, a woman’s value and worth is out into her looks and weight?”I think it’s interesting that you make a comment that the wife doesn’t value the relationship enough to lose weight to make him happyYeah. TicWatch is the sport smartwatch with Google Assistant that gives you loads of features for a fraction of the price. When my wife spreads her legs, her thighs still touch. I have always loved working out but for me, and I am having the best sex of my life with a man who likes to be with a real women and doesn’t need a woman to do everything for him because he is an adult.Look, we all age. How do I do that? We are made this way. But by now the original reasons seem to have dissipated. i hope that you find some solution that works for you.If you do end the relationship, and your wife loses weight, I would not take this as a passive aggressive or outright aggressive maneuver.
But seriously 90+ pounds?! I’m frustrated my wife keeps packing on pounds, yet claims her appearance is important to her. After 4 years I have found that I am slowly giving up on my own fitness (NOT OKAY).
These are the cards I was dealt.Well Said.